Life is there to be experienced, to make choices, to learn.
Whether you have A, or B, or C, or D, sometimes depends on your choices; other times it is out of your control.
Best to make the most of each experience, whatever it comes out to be; you cannot predict.
Discover yourself through others; discover others through yourself.
You are writing your autobiography with each breath, and that’s the one you will have available to look back on in years to come.